So yeah, nowadays what everyone thinks is,What does everyone think? According to me? According...to everyone else! There is a general consensus to be honest that, only that guys with good looks, and yeah a good personality, sometimes with shades on(rayban! Yeah, haha!) are the ones which attract most of the girls!. And if you look at it from..from a perspective of a neutral person, it can be said that...its..it's infact true!.
When a guy, a good looking guy let's say, just parks his bike or a car, walks on with his so called 'the cool' way, girls seem to be more attracted!. And on the other hand, a guy, who's cute lets say, but doesn't have a good enough dressing sense,who may be more talented than the so called 'cool guy', but doesn't walk like that, or doesn't wear those Rayban shades or doesn't park his bike, and sits back in the drivers seat, or opts for a public transport, girls seem to be less attracted towards him!.
If you have the best of both worlds then kudos! But it's very rare to find such guys to be honest!. If you're good at something, you need time to master that, and you don't think about anything else, you..you just refine yourself in that field, and stop thinking about all the stuff which attracts the opposite gender!.
But these things take little or no time to learn, but if you're good at something, you need hours and hours of dedication, drive, passion and the will to get back up even though you know you may fail again, even though you know you might not reach the target, even though you know you might not win the competiton or whatever, but what you know is that you're doing what you love!.
And the reason for most of the divorce cases from my point of view is that, most of the girls tend to choose the guy who talks sweetly in front of them, who has good dressing sense and wether he's from a good background or not!. But what I think is that, when you love someone, you love his hardwork, you love his passion towards something, because a guy who is passionate towards something will never leave you, will never cheat on you, will never let you down and will never make you cry!.
He may not be the one who'll make you smile with his conversations, because some people are too shy for that, but he will never make you shed a tear either!. Because he knows what it takes to love something, because he already does that, which is his passion. And the girl can be his passion too!, a second passion but equally or even more important!.
Everything can be won back in this world, but love? It only happens once, and if you find a right person,they will not look at your money, your dressing sense, wether you're good at talking to other girls(from a girls perspective), how hot and sexy you look when you wear a dress for a party(from a guys perspective)infact what he/she'll see is the hard work and the dedication and the will, drive and passion towards a dream!.
Not every 'cool guy' can be considered as a reason for most of the divorce cases, everyone is different, love can be between any two creatures, but yeah if the 'cool guys' aren't on the wrong end of the arguement then yeah, the 'cute but not so cool guys' haven't done anything bad either!.
Because when you have a passion and a dream, you can never cheat your love! You'll have no time for that!. Or wait do you have enough time?!